It's been long the last I posted. I won't be fair enough to say that I have been busy, It isn't like that at all. If I had to write something I would have surely took out time for that.
Weird but true!
I have almost forgot that, sometime I used to write. Its like loosing yourself in the hustle and bustle of a new city and not even knowing that . Suddenly, One day you realize how much you've changed. Not just mentally, But psychologically and emotionally too. Changed in a good way and how you realize things. So it was just another day of my self realizations.
Self-realization.
1.You need to be a devoted person to whatever you do.
If you're doing something, Do it with whole-heart OR Don't do it at all.
The former may make you a little unhappy but the later will effect your mental status drastically. You'll probably end up feeling that you cannot do anything at all. You'll feel you're not at all capable for the job, Which is not at all true.
You can always do what you want and always achieve what you want to.
2.You need to have masks (Not the literal ones) But emotional.
Yes, You don't have to be the same with everyone. You don't have to show each person what kind of person you are but you can't be the same to everyone. Here, You have to wear a mask. With different people you need to be different with your way of talking and behaving and even sharing. Its not called being multiple-faced, Its just being practical cause you don't want to be bad with anyone.
3.You need to be strong, Extremely strong.
You need to have these stone hard goals and your heart should be stone hard when it comes to achieving them. Don't make your dreams flexible. Never. Don't make yourself vulnerable to anyone. Anyone.Yes! I remember reading this somewhere. Always give more importance to your career than anything because your career is never gonna wake up someday and say that it doesn't love you anymore. (which I think is partially right and partially not, Life you know!)
4.Do mistakes and learn from others' mistakes.
Mistakes, You learn from them and Do feel free to share them, As it helps others not to do the same. Especially with your younger ones. Also, try learning from other mistakes. Yes! That doesn't stop making you do the same mistake, but it just makes you mentally prepared about what can happen. You should be strong enough to accept your mistakes and others' too. Everyone does mistakes, its up to us how we deal with them and how we react to them.
5.Motivate yourself and others.
Self-motivation is very important and so is motivating others, it always opens up path to make you believe in your self and It's really important to believe in yourself.
6.Be confident.
This is one of the most important realizations I've ever had. You might make just a circle on page and say its an art. Be confident about yourself, Be confident of what you do. These days I find myself at an entirely new level. Frankly, I always lacked self-confidence, Now I feel that I am being confident enough. I don't ask people twice a thing, I just make and give it off. Being confident takes lot of time but it really helps.
7.Love yourself and the world will love you.
Yes! Love yourself and the world will love you. You love yourself, you're cheerful, happy and always bubbly, The world is automatically going to like you and respect your identity. They are going to get positive vibrations from you which are very effective. The aura is so strong of you loving yourself and being happy that you can cross over big negetivities and hurdles and you won't even know how easily you did that.
I hope reading this would have been a little beneficial to you and If not, then just forget it like a normal story which came and passed by.
At the end I would like to say something, I told a friend today.
"What at the end matters is, If you gave in your 100%, If you did all you could.
Result at the end never really matters, It's just the feeling that does."
P.S. Don't forget to check out "She was my Girlfriend! Or... I thought so!". A novel by DEV VERMA & PRASHANT SHELKE.
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Also, Lately I have been working on Graphic Deisgning a bit again.
You can always get updates at my page.
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